Is friendship a commodity? Do we gain by adding many people to our circle or list of "friends"? What is a true friend? I have found some on here; people who care to know about me and share some of themselves too; people who ask the deeper and more meaningful questions about how I am and what is going on in my life.

I hope I do the same for them.

As we are in the last month of 2009 it is a time to look back and reflect upon what we have achieved and what goals have come to fruition. What could we / should we have done differently? How much commitment did we truly give to our goals or how much did we just drift along allowing "fate" to determine the outcome? As an astrologer friend of mine would say: "the astrology may say it CAN happen but it's up to you to MAKE it happen".

So, what are your thoughts for 2010? Do you have plans and goals? Will your new year resolutions wither and die in the first few days of January? Let your friends help you....though sadly some may hinder because they "know what's best for you"....mmmm. Sometimes talking with one who doesn't know you may help. 

Enjoy these last few weeks of 2009 and have a great time around Christmas and New Year. For those who do not celebrate Christmas and for whom January 1 2010 does not really start a New Year, be happy and reflect anyway.....there is no better time than now to determine what you see as your future.

Blessings and best wishes.