So how are you feeling? Be honest!
Well, well done if you are feeling great. If you are not feeling so good what can you do to lift your spirits...even a little?
In the UK our news bulletins and newspapers are as full as I am sure is the case elsewhere of the economic gloom. But something else is a sad but true hot topic. A young, 27 year old woman is dying of cancer. Why is that news? Well Jade Goody came to fame in 2002 in that intriguing TV programme Big Brother. She is not the most beautiful girl, nor the most articulate but she has a street wisdom which all too many people envy.
Jade has stayed in the public eye, at least in UK since her Big Brother appearance and in fact was embroiled in a racist row in a "Celebrity" version of the show a couple of years ago. Towards the end of last year Jade was appearing on a version of the show in India when she heard the news from her English doctors that she had cervical cancer. She returned home immediately and started treatment.
Earlier this week she was told that the cancer had spread and she was terminally ill with only months, at best, to live. On Sunday she will be married. She is using her street wisdom to make as much money as she can from publicity and media. Jade has two very young children whom she will leave behind and who she wants to provide for...education, a home, a future. She is doing it in the way she knows how and best. The saddest thing of all is she will not be around to share their upbringing and the love and heartaches children bring.
Whether Jade is someone you like or not; whether you have admired her in the past or not or whether you like the way she is publically exposing the realities of her impending death there is something infinitely admirable in her intentions.
Many more young women have attended hospital to have cervical cancer tests and the provision of such tests and the age at which entitlement should happen is alll being debated because of poor Jade.
I had never been a fan of Jade before, but I am so moved by her right now I felt I had to write this.
So while she is married at the weekend, pumped full of pain killers, what shall we be doing to lift our spirits? Music is a great tonic for me and the recent lighter mornings, being woken to the sound of bird song. A walk in the country or by the sea; seeing friends; playing sport; just being.
Find that thing that lifts you and Just Be!